Thursday, October 22, 2015

Christian Halloween

Some Christians think it's wrong to celebrate Halloween because it's
"the Devil's holiday". To that I say phooey. If you believe that you're opening your house up to the devil by celebrating Halloween then I urge you to pray about it because it sounds very superstitious to believe such things. Believing in superstitions means you're not trusting Christ. Christ defeated the Devil & evil spirits when he rose from the dead. The Catholic church celebrates All Saint's Day and All Souls Day as days to remember the dead. If you're saved you have nothing to fear. Now I wouldn't go around practicing voodoo, seances, witchcraft, and playing with Ouija boards, but that has nothing to do with conjuring spirits. That's just because as Christians we know to not worship other false gods. This behavior can lead you to fall away from your faith. However, having a costume party celebrating Jesus's triumph over death, remembering dear friends & family that have died, etc. is all ok in my book. Here's a great article on why it's ok to celebrate Halloween as Christians.

I understand those that might not want to dress up as demons or decorate with scary decorations (though there's nothing wrong with that) so I've together some ideas for a Christian appropriate Halloween. 


Decorations

Religious Candles Burning Candles Burning at Basilica
Lighting candles in remeberance of loved ones who have died is all part of All SOul's Day and All Saints Day in the Catholic church. It's also a new tradition to have a candle bruing in your window to let trick-or-treatesrs know that your household is a Christian household so they know they are safe at your home. For safety you can used battery operated or plug in candles. 

Faux Fall Berry Mini Wreath
Glitzy Orange Pumpkin


Bronze Mum Bushel Basket

Parties & Activities

Reverse Treating, No Tricking

Halloween Alternative Activity
Hershey Bars, Candy Corn and Candy Corn Cookies
Elements

  • make a special treat 
  • deliver to  Family and Friends

Pumpkin carving party printables | Delphine for The Sweetest Occasion

Elements
  • Tables w. tools & templates
  • Use the guts in pumpkin recipes like cookies, seeds as snacks
  • Other Contest Party Ideas: Cookie Decorating, Fall Pie Baking, Chilli Cook off, 

Trunk Or Treat Ideas
By C.R.A.F.T


Monster Car Photo Source: USA Post
Patriotic Car at Divine Hope Church
101 Dalmations Photo Source: NJ.com
Image Source: Ten23 Designs
Candy Land by Totally the Bomb
Featured image by Ben Jenkins via Flickr cc.


Elements

  • Parking lot instead of door to door, safer
  • Decorate your trunk
  • Candy to give out
  • Wear costumes that go with your car
  • Play music that goes with your theme


HALLOWEEN SCAVENGER HUNT

Elements
  •  Scavenger List
  • Method of choosing teams
  • Flashlights
  • Cameras, bags for collecting
  • Prizes for winner(s)


Treats

DIY Caramel Apple Bar
By Lauren Conrad

Candy Apple Bar

Ingredients

  • apples
  • caramel
  • variety of toppings 
  • kabob skewers
Red Licorice Sticks

GLOWING BEVERAGES

As the stream of trick-or-treaters slows, invite your neighbors over for a drink. Toss a glow stick or two in with the ice in your cooler so they'll open up to an eerie gleam.


Homemade Halloween Peppermint Patties
Peppermint Patty
Costumes

Celebrating and decorating for All Hallows Eve does mean you support the occult. The holiday can be celebrated as a fun day for kids and adults. 



Monday, August 17, 2015

How to Sell Your Stuff

Shaun & I are not only on baby step 2 (We've paid off 10K!), but we're also in a transition period. Shaun is separating from active duty military into part time duty in the military and with that, starting a whole new career in Real Estate. I'm taking my current career in the entertainment industry to a new market in the Charleston SC area, a bigger market than our current Minot, ND area. That means a cross country move & smaller digs now that we will no longer be living on base for free and while we pay off debt. This means selling stuff. We have so much stuff. It just accumulates. So we had to go through all our stuff and figure out what to keep, toss, donate & sell.

It's the end of Summer, which means the yard sale season is just about over. It's time to stop procrastinating & purge yourself of all the "stuff" you own and don't need. We all have stuff. According to Self Storage Finders.com, 9% of U.S. Households have a storage unit with 50% of those storage units containing household overflow (NY Times), & Slate.com says that storage units in the U.S. stay at 90% occupancy.

So why do we have so much stuff? Are we "keeping up with Joneses"? Are we just too polite to say no to other people's hand-me-downs? Either way we are wasting money on storage units and bigger places to put our stuff. Now is the time to rid ourselves of the clutter. It will be better for your wallet and your sanity. But how? It's not easy going through years of stuff. Some stuff is "sentimental", some relatives will lay on the guilt trip for getting rid of that thing that's been in the family for years but they won't want to take it either (they'll just want you to keep it), we think we'll need it someday, etc. So many excuses. Well, it's time, especially if your in debt like we are. If your getting through baby step 2-3 (paying off debt & building your emergency fund). You don't need stuff. You need money. I'm gonna give you some easy steps to declutter your home & make some money.

1. Take a week to go room by room.

2. Have 3 bins/boxes/hampers
 1. Sort 2. Sell 3. Donate
 Also keep a recycling bin & trash can as well as a shredder for personal documents.

3. Sort- is for things that don't belong in that room. That way after you go through the whole house you'll have a sort bin to go through. It saves so much time rather than running around all over the house and getting off track.

2. Sell- We'll get to that in a sec.

3. Donate- After you sell what you can, find some great local charities that you want to support. Some even have pick up services so you don't even have to leave your house. Many also have tax forms so you can get tax write-offs. Be sure to make an inventory before you donate so you have no issues filling out the form.


Now for the selling part.

Here's what we sold, where we did it & how much we made:

Virtual Yard Sales: It was still very cold here when we started the selling process so outdoor yard sales were out of the question & the local indoor flea market wouldn't start for a month.


  • We went on Facebook & looked up local yard sale pages & groups
  • We sold our sectional set (1 L sectional, 1 large round chair & 1 round cocktail ottoman for $600, a sewing machine that I never used for $40, a waffle maker never used for $20, a car kit for hooking up a auto stereo system for $20, & my guitar (barely played as I'm much better at piano) for $50 Total: $730
Garage Sales: We don't really have a front yard just a front driveway. 

Garage Sale 1: May 2015 

  • Where- our house during Ward County's Ultimate Garage Sale Weekend
  • We advertised online and made a FB event. A ton of businesses & homes participate. It's the biggest yard sale day weekend of the year. Check your local county websites for yard sale questions regarding permits, advertising, and to see if your area has a similar weekend. Also doing community sales with your church or neighborhood gets more customers. 
  • We made $600 in this one despite heavy rain.
  • To see how we set it up, and a more in depth look at how we had a successful yard sale read here. Each pic has a tip or how to.
Garage Sale 2: July 2015

  • At our house on a Saturday. We again advertised online and made a FB event
  • We made $350 at this as we had less to sell
  • Our neighborhood only allowed 2 garage sales a year and required us to fill out a form to have one, had restrictions on what kind of signs we could put up and where, but did provide us with 2 sturdy metal wipe off signs for free. We also took advantage off a wipe off board/chalkboard easel left on the curb by our neighbors at the corner who left it on the curb for trash to pick up the following Monday so we wrote YARD SALE with an arrow pointing to our house. 
After the yard sale, we still had stuff left over. What to do?

Clothing:

  • Threadflip-sells good condition women's clothes & accessories for you online. You just print out a free shipping label or order a free shipping kit, go through your stuff, and send it in. They go through your stuff. What is rejected can be shipped back to you for $10 or can be donated for you to Goodwill with a requested tax receipt as well. What is accepted is sold for you for 90 days with a very nice commission set up for you. What doesn't sell in 90 days then has the same offer from above. I've made $150.40 so far. Here's my closet so you can see for yourself. 
  • .LikeTwice (now out of business) is just one of dozens of sites that also use the same business model as Threadflip for kids & men's categories as well. I sold some of my husband's things. LikeTwice gives you money up front the way that stores like Plato's Closet & Uptown Cheapskate do. I only made $7 for a sweater, a pair of khakis, and 2 shirts but it's something. 
  • Total: $157.40

Books


  • Sell books to a used bookstore. Our book store: Main Street Books
  • Book trade in program: 2 boxes of books for a $15.74 gift card plus less clutter. We were able to buy a few books we actually wanted to read and have much more space without all the old books we read once or reference type books that were out of date. The better the condition and newer, the more you get.

Computers


  • Sell computers to a computer store. 
  • Ours: CompuTechYou drop it off, they take a look at it and make an offer. 
  • We sold: CPU with keyboard from 2011 for $50.
DVDs
  • Sell DVDs to a store like GameStop.
  • Ours:  Rock 30 Games  buying, selling, and trading games, dvds, & blurays. 
  • We made: -$78 credit which is all they were offering at the time. We got rid of a ton of DVDs that we had bought years ago through a ill-advised DVD WholeSaler site in order to resell them online. We've been trying to get rid of them for 5 years. We finally have thanks to Rock 30 Games which helped get rid of the last box. Now we have some TV & Movie DVDs that we actually really want to keep & re watch & much less clutter. 
Collectibles

  • Sell collectibles to hobby stores & Ebay
  • Ours:  Gorilla Games 
  • It's important to do research on what your item(s) are worth so you don't get low balled.
  • I bought a vintage Coca Cola metal tray from a local shop a few months ago for $8. I did some research before trying to sell it at our yard sale. Turns out it's a 1929 limited edition tray that's worth $500. Woohoo! Haven't sold it yet. Waiting to move then looking at getting it appraised then either EBay, Ruby Lane, or auction house. 
  • What we sold: about 1200 Magic the Gathering Cards. We had mostly generic cards but a few worth $20+ a piece that we were advised not sell to them. 
  • What we made: $40 on the rest

Tax write-off through charitable donations

Other donations

  • Ours: Airman's Attic 
  • No tax write-off for these, but you are helping out military veterans & their families. I've benefited from this service. As we were going around and packing up our home we ran into more things to donate and decided it was more convenient to drive down the street and give back to a place we have gained from rather than make yet another trip downtown to Goodwill.
A caveat: Please if you are not military, either current (regardless of branch) or retired or military dependant, do not go with your buddy & take items from this store even if they have an ID. This service is not for you.  It's illegal and immoral to do so. Same goes for the BX or the Commissary. 

Hope this helped give you some decluttering and money making ideas. It's so worth it to have less stuff. Only keep what you need & love.






Monday, April 20, 2015

Our Progress



Updates: It's been a while since we've update you guys on our progress. We started this journey in August. Since then: 


  •   We have cut our spending from a little under $4K a month to $1700 a month not including tithing which we do every week now. We are searching for a new church home and think we may have found one.

  • We have completed Baby Step 1 (1K in the bank for emergencies). 



  •  In Baby Step 2, we paid off 15K in credit card debt & a truck loan. We now own that truck free & clear. 



  • We have sold so much stuff including a Nissan 350Z that had a loan on it & a living room set. We are using this Spring cleaning time to rid ourselves of everything we don't need. To help ourselves do this we look at the items and say, "Do we want "X" more than we wanna get out of debt." The way we're going we should be out of debt by 2016. 


   However, we had to put a pause in the debt snowball. There's are only one reason to ever do this: If there is something coming on the horizon that is big, costly, unavoidable (like medical treatment, a baby, move, change/loss of job that you have notice of). In our case, it's a change of job/move.

   My husband has felt a call by God to leave active duty and continue his military duty part time in the Guard so he can pursue his Bachelor's Degree in Finance and become a CFP (Certified Financial Planner). That means choosing a state in which to join the guard and moving. Moving takes money. We'll also have to find work. My husband's Tuition's Assistance, GI Bill & Guard Pay will make his education free and give us some money, over $1800 a month actually with more during his 2 weeks a month. Shaun will also get a part time job. I'll be getting an agent so I can resume acting in film & singing in more professional venues. I will also find a full-time job in  the entertainment industry as a performer, in Broadcasting (which is the field in which I currently work), Journalism, or another background job like Publicity or Event Planning in which I also have previous experience. I hope to secure a new job before the move, but that might not happened living so far away from where we're moving. After we are debt-free and have 3-6 months in our emergency savings, I will then reevaluate where I'm working and determine if I want to quit to be a full-time actor/singer again if I'm not already by that time.

   We've picked a state that all our family is in, has a great in-state college for my husband to attend with the program he's studying, has a lower cost of living than our current state, and plenty of opportunities for me in the entertainment industry (much more than our current state). However, if we're not able to secure jobs before we move, we'll need money. We also will not be using the GTC (Government Travel Card) to move because it's a credit card that the government pays off when you turn in your travel voucher. We don't believe in credit cards anymore. We will pay out of pocket, turn in our vouchers, and get paid back. We might even just move ourselves instead of having TMO move everything  which will make us money.We're putting all of our leftover money away for this move and maybe to live on temporarily til we find work. We don't need much we have come to find out.

   We will post more in depth articles & videos on how we have done this such as how to budget, how to trim the fat off your budget, couponing, etc.



BTW, my indie film The Legend of Seven Toe Maggie I acted in right before I moved had 2 Red Carpet Premieres (I missed cuz we're on this plan and can't take trips right now) & is being selected into various film festivals in hopes of getting wide release. These are in GA if any of you out there wanna go. I will give more updates on our jobs/careers in future                                             videos & articles. 

  We'd love to hear your advice, comments, & stories. We want to hear from you out there who have made a cross-country move or transitioned from military to civilian life.

Stay tuned for a new video next week on Debt Myths :)

Sunday, March 8, 2015

Lent & Sacrifice


Lent began February 18th, so we are in full swing with a little less than a month to go. What does Lent have to do with sacrifice? Well, everything. Lent is a time where Christians remember the sacrifice that God made of his son Jesus for our sins. What is a way that Christians remember this? Well, many Christians give up something during the Lent season like chocolate or junk food, for example, as a way of honoring Jesus's sacrifice. It should be something that's hard to give up. Also, instead of giving up some "thing", you can "do" something like extra bible study or going to a daily church service in addition to Sundays, which sacrifices personal time for time with God. Catholics also give up meat on Ash Wednesday and all Fridays after that til Easter Sunday. Those of good health & age also fast, which means eating 1 big meal with 2 small meals & no snacking in between. 

 What does Lent have to with finance? The Dave Ramsey plan teaches you contentment with what you have. A big problem in this society & the reason so many people get into debt in the first place is that people want what they want when they want it fast. According to infowars.com, today, 46% of all Americans carry a credit card . Approximately 70 percent of all car purchases in the United States involve an auto loan. Total home mortgage debt in the United States is now about 5 times larger than it was just 20 years ago. 

What do all these types of debt have in common? They are all consumer debt. They are debt that people go into to buy stuff they don't need to impress people they don't like. Instead of saving up for the things we want, as a society we go into debt to have them now. If we were all more content with what we have, there wouldn't be a need to do this. There's nothing wrong with stuff. Hi! My name's Michele, and I like stuff. However, there is something wrong with putting your family at financial risk in order to buy stuff. You're also not teaching your kids responsibility. What are they going to learn watching mommy & daddy use debt to buy stuff instead of saving responsibility and paying for it in cash? What a missed opportunity to teach valuable life lessons! 

 I encourage everyone to take this season of Lent to make financial sacrifices and really examine how that sacrifice effects your life. Can you go without cable for 40 days? What about Starbucks? I bet you can. I bet you will find that time spent with your family can replace time in front of the TV, and you will find new ways to reconnect with your loved ones. What would you be able to pay off with that savings? Maybe you can use that money to save up for your daughter's prom dress instead of putting it on a credit card. Imagine how you would feel to make that sacrifice and do something good for others. 

How you spend your money is a measure of your values. You can tell where your priorities lie by how you spend your money. Lent is the perfect time of year to reevaluate those proprieties

Monday, February 23, 2015

The Nichols Journey Trailer

 

This trailer gives insight into what our vlog is about and allows you to get a glimpse of our life together.
Edited by Wesley Leutkemeyer of Royal-Masked Productions.

Monday, January 19, 2015

Debt Sucking Saturdays: Baby Steps


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